June #AskLing: Men Are Trash

DEAR LING, So I did my girl wrong and she forgave me but I’m still having trouble forgiving myself. I’ve been doing right by her but it feels like I’m giving her a hollow victory. I want her to be happy, she says she’s happy with me but I feel like idk. Like when a … Continue reading June #AskLing: Men Are Trash

May #AskLing: I’m Looking for Her…

image from hercampus.com DEAR LING,  Me and the dating scene have a love hate relationship. I’m part take whatever comes, part go for what you want, part ion even wanna do this shit. I think I know what I want in a partner (not super sure) but sometimes I objectively reflect on past situations and … Continue reading May #AskLing: I’m Looking for Her…

#AskLing: March Sadness

  March: March Sadness (this month we're doubling up)   DEAR LING, I've had a side nigga for 2 years now (We "talked" for a year and a half before we started f*cking). Been with my dude for 5+ years.  About my Side Nigga: He's lowkey a fuck boy lol. Average paying job, waiting for a … Continue reading #AskLing: March Sadness

February #AskLing: Side N*gga Situation

February: Side N*gga Situation   DEAR LING: I been having the same “side-nigga” for about 7 years and now that I’m single (2 years now) he want to argue about what I do with other men but he still doesn’t want to be exclusive with me (since that’s how he became a side nigga in … Continue reading February #AskLing: Side N*gga Situation

ASK LING, Coming Feb 2018!

    I’ve contemplated this idea for WC for quite some time. During undergrad, I had a live video show with my friend Doug, and during the Ask segment we’d both answer questions that had been emailed to me. The viewers enjoyed listening to both perspectives. Typically, questions were submitted by women about interpersonal issues … Continue reading ASK LING, Coming Feb 2018!