#AskLing: March Sadness

  March: March Sadness (this month we're doubling up)   DEAR LING, I've had a side nigga for 2 years now (We "talked" for a year and a half before we started f*cking). Been with my dude for 5+ years.  About my Side Nigga: He's lowkey a fuck boy lol. Average paying job, waiting for a … Continue reading #AskLing: March Sadness

February #AskLing: Side N*gga Situation

February: Side N*gga Situation   DEAR LING: I been having the same “side-nigga” for about 7 years and now that I’m single (2 years now) he want to argue about what I do with other men but he still doesn’t want to be exclusive with me (since that’s how he became a side nigga in … Continue reading February #AskLing: Side N*gga Situation

ASK LING, Coming Feb 2018!

    I’ve contemplated this idea for WC for quite some time. During undergrad, I had a live video show with my friend Doug, and during the Ask segment we’d both answer questions that had been emailed to me. The viewers enjoyed listening to both perspectives. Typically, questions were submitted by women about interpersonal issues … Continue reading ASK LING, Coming Feb 2018!

2017 Recap: Lessons Learned/Killa’s Top 8

2017 Recap: Lessons Learned/Killa's Top Eight We made it, y’all. YOU MADE IT. It’s officially January 2018. So many things have gone according to plan and terribly wrong in 2017, and I’m grateful to be here. Here’s my Top 8 of 2017. 1.       Trust that what belongs to you will never fall into the hands … Continue reading 2017 Recap: Lessons Learned/Killa’s Top 8

An Open Letter to the Men I Was Too Afraid to Love

I haven’t had a "boyfriend" in 8 years. Considering my age 8 years ago, some might say, “girl, that doesn't even count.” If you’re still judging me for the whole 8 years thing, you have about thirty seconds to get over it. Between 2010 and this day in August 2017, I’ve dated/dealt with/talked to (whatever … Continue reading An Open Letter to the Men I Was Too Afraid to Love