One Year After the “Open Letter”

One year ago, I wrote an open letter to three men. What these men had in common was me, and their desire for commitment during a time when I wasn’t ready. It was the most viewed piece I’d written for WC prior to my domain switch, and it was my most vulnerable. I tend to … Continue reading One Year After the “Open Letter”

June #AskLing: Men Are Trash

DEAR LING, So I did my girl wrong and she forgave me but I’m still having trouble forgiving myself. I’ve been doing right by her but it feels like I’m giving her a hollow victory. I want her to be happy, she says she’s happy with me but I feel like idk. Like when a … Continue reading June #AskLing: Men Are Trash

Killa’s Summer Beauty Faves

Let’s talk summer beauty, shall we? Disclaimer – I consider myself comfortable applying makeup and I’m always willing to try new things. There’s a few looks I shy away from based on my facial features (e.g., cut crease), but if I’m in the mood I go for it. Summer 2018 is also all about color … Continue reading Killa’s Summer Beauty Faves

May #AskLing: I’m Looking for Her…

image from DEAR LING,  Me and the dating scene have a love hate relationship. I’m part take whatever comes, part go for what you want, part ion even wanna do this shit. I think I know what I want in a partner (not super sure) but sometimes I objectively reflect on past situations and … Continue reading May #AskLing: I’m Looking for Her…

You Just Wanna Be Around

You Just Wanna Be AroundYou just wanna be around.You express your interest in me by the method of your choice, hoping that I’ll reciprocate that interest. You send me “good morning” texts, compliment my fire Instagram pictures, and take me out on dates (or not??). The problem is: you just wanna be around, you don’t … Continue reading You Just Wanna Be Around